Naked or covered?

Every woman desires to become the sexiest in the eyes of men, especially to the one she wants to get

attracted to her. With lots of gorgeous ladies who can turn heads on, being the most desirable is not an easy thing. You need to compete with many women who also have the goal of becoming the fairest of all.

With this goal in mind, it is no wonder that most women nowadays are becoming more vain just to be considered a stunner. Wearing shimmering make-ups, changing hairstyles every now and then, and flaunting luxurious gems and branded apparels are some of the criteria considered in this competition.

However, the main course in this pageant is the fashion of each aspiring beauty queen. Clothes are sure ways of getting admirers. If you wear your stuff well, if you are able to carry yourself in whatever outfits you are in, you can already attract many.

Almost stripped naked

Many believe that the more skin you reveal, the sexier you will appear. Therefore, clothes nowadays are becoming smaller, shorter, and fitter. Women who like to attract men wear skimpy shorts and skirts, sheer dresses, and tops that emphasize the cleavage.

Yes, such attires will really turn lots of men’s eyes to you. When you are almost naked before them, these poor males become helpless because it is their weakness. Men are visual and sexual beings. Just the exposure of some usually hidden parts of a woman’s body can already drive their imagination wild. In just a minute, hot scenes with that woman have already played in their minds.

If your goal is to turn a man sexually on, yes, wearing too short shorts and sheer tops with no tank beneath can make you achieve it.

Covered and protected

However, if what you really aim for is the admiration, respect, and true love of the man you want, being almost naked in front of him will not do the job.

One thing that you should learn about how men truly love is that they are protective of their woman. Therefore, if your guy does not like you showing lots of skin, you are blessed because it means he wants you to be safe from the cravings of other men. They know what runs inside the head of the other guys who encounter hot and sexy women so they do not want the loved of their life to be the subject of their lust.

If a man likes you because you are sexy and daring, it means that he is only after you for one thing—and it is no other than sex. His passion for you is purely carnal and you cannot expect him to stand by you the moment he gets bored of your body. For this reason, you should know the real motives of the man you allow to enter into your life.

A beauty queen

You should understand that a beauty queen is different from a cheap whore on the street. A queen is treated with respect, gentleness, and adoration, but the latter is just seen as a commodity and a pleasure-giver.

Therefore, if you want to be admired and loved as a masterpiece of beauty, here are what you need to do:

·         Be simple and modest- as it is said, “simplicity is beauty”. You do not have to adorn yourself with lots of accessories and branded garments. As long as you are clean and fresh-looking, you are already lovable. Also, avoid wearing too small and fit clothes that reveal much of your skin. You can still be fashionable and trendy even without being too daring and loud.

·         Focus on the beauty from within- what a man wants in a partner is not only a dozing sex appeal. A kind, gentle, and mature woman is more precious to him. She is the person perfect to live forever and build his home with. Therefore, you should focus  on developing your character more. Strive to be pure and righteous so that you will possess a beauty that is timeless and never fleeting.

The lust of the flesh is temporal and usually once a man gets what he wants from a woman, the adoration that he had for her at the beginning is lessened or replaced by disgust. Therefore, your goal should not only to be attractive and desirable. You must aim to be a woman of value by having a noble character—and it starts by having self-respect.

5 best positions you would want to discover

You have tried all the positions in bed with your lover—missionary, dog style, reverse cowgirl, hot tub hug—c’mon, name them all to prove how adventurous and expert you are.  Oh, surely you have enjoyed them, right? Some may be too complicated and some too simple, but what matters is you satisfy your deepest craving.

However, your problem now is you have tried them all already and since you do them almost 24/7, now you are getting bored. Like how a drug addict needs a higher dosage the longer he takes his ecstasy for the maintenance of getting high, you now need more intense sex to pacify your raging hormones. Therefore, you must come up with all new positions to experience more thrill in bed. Now you are desperate.

What can you do to keep the spirit of carnal bliss in you? You are just 18 and it seems like you would get to try all the kama sutra positions before you even get married. Now that is really a problem.

How could you enjoy the core essence your married life when as early as now you are already tired of sex? I tell you, your sex life once you are married would be boring unless you find an out of this world bed adventure. How can you stay out of this nightmare then?

Alright, I know you are here for the 5 best positions that maybe you have not tried yet. I tell you, they are not only fun, but they can also help you keep the fire until you have tied the knot. Try them and I guarantee you the best sex life ever to come into your life.

Before we begin with the countdown, I want you to do something first. I want you to raise your hand, look at your fingers, and focus on each as I mention them. Now, we can discover the 5 positions you are looking for.

The top 5 best positions

1. Thumb position- this is the first and foremost position that you should learn and focus on. If you exercise this in your life, I am sure the rest would be easy and fun to learn. The thumb position is actually your position in God. I do not know if you believe in Him or not but one thing I assure you, learning to love God and offering Him your life is the best source of joy (just try it if you are an atheist, agnostic, deist, or just a liberated geek ‘coz I tell you it’s effective because I was once like you). Putting God as your top priority would help you bring order into your life. Anyway, He is your creator, your life’s author and the One who knows the best for you, therefore follow Him and discover the best plan He has prepared for you.

2. Index position- I guess most of us have already mastered this one. This is actually your position as a lover of yourself. Well, before you could love others and let them love you, you need to love yourself first. You are the main responsible for what could happen in your life. If you want to be successful, then go, reach for your dreams. Once you achieve this, you will have fulfillment and you can already offer yourself to others.

3. Middle position- Your middle finger refers to your position as a family member and as a friend. In a way, you have a responsibility with them. You must fulfill your family and social duties first  before getting into your marriage bed because once you have your own family already, you would have a hard time sparing a minute for them. You would not regret anything if you have been a good friend and homebuddy before you marry because you have given your best to them already.

4. Ring position- It is after you have perfected the first 3 positions that you can go to this one. Your ring finger no doubt symbolizes your position as a future husband/wife. Getting married is not just an ordinary phase in life that one wants to experience but it is a special chapter of your biography. The person you marry is supposedly the one you truly love and so you want to give him/her the best of you. Surely you do not want to say to your partner, “Hey honey, let’s not make love anymore because I’m bored of it.” Also, I’m sure you do not wish to give him/her STD, do you? Therefore, stop experimenting with your sex life now with just anybody but just wait for your husband/wife to come. It would be more fun and safer if you discover stuffs together.

5. Baby or pinky position- If you love sex then probably you love procreation. If you dream of having your own children someday then better think about them now. Better prepare for your future kids, in short. This last position is your status as being a parent in the future. If you would want to have children of your own then you need to be a responsible parent—and being one means PLANNING for it. You want to give your kids a good life right? Therefore, stop lying just anywhere with anyone and begin working hard to save for your future. If not, you might end up bringing your precious dream children into this world early and you realize you could not even buy a diaper.

Sex is beautiful and fun. However, if done in the wrong way at the wrong time, it becomes wasted and ugly. Just like how watching your favorite movie everyday for six months could make you hate it, making love as early as a teenager would make you lose its being special once you are already at the right time. To summarize everything, the best sex position if you are not yet married is TO WAIT.

The art of undressing attractively

After a dinner date with your boyfriend, where do you go? Do you go home immediately—or do you go home at all? Where is your next and final destination? Is it his pad or your place? Then, where do you end up with him? In bed? In the shower? There you go—the most awaited part of your date’s program.

Hmmm... wait—Before, you cuddle up with him under the sheet or you dance in the rain inside his bathroom, what is that thing which you need to do first? Well, I would not blame you if you do not notice that part of the play at all, but without your knowing, it gives your night a kind of interlude. Usually, you do this hurriedly (especially if you are that heated up already), but sometimes you even do it with a pirouette for a poise. What is this? Well, it is no other than undressing.

Yeah, undressing. This is the least part that we notice whenever we do something ‘supernatural’ with our partner. However, unconsciously, doing this is a performance—an art.

The wild dance of fire

Foreplay is done gracefully, if you ever notice. It follows the smooth rhythm of lovers’ passion and this is how the fire is turned on—or made wilder. Moreover, this scene begins with undressing and so this means that even just the taking off of clothes in this instance is a graceful dance too.

Do you want to know how to undress attractively so that you could make your boyfriend go wild right from the beginning? Well, it is interesting that you are interested, but if you want to learn the tricks of undressing before the bed for your boyfriend—i repeat—your BOYFRIEND, then I will give you the undressing tips that are suitable for your level.

Go naked before him—very naked

It is not being naive, but it is just trying to help you be the best girlfriend and future wife that you can be. As a

young and single lady, instead of focusing on how to be good in bed already, you should first know how a guy should value you. Does he really love you for who you are or does he just like to linger with you because he can make you go naked before him anytime he wants it?

Undressing before a guy does not make him love you, but undressing your character before him makes you see if he could really love you for who you are. Moreover, he should also undress his life to you. What do I mean here? This is all about getting to know the real person before entrusting yourself to someone completely.

To know your boyfriend down to his bones, you do not need to go all the way with him. Why not try to learn about his interests? Get to know if he is responsible, gentleman, hardworking, etc. See also how he treats his friends and family, especially the women in his life. In ways like these, you will know if he is the one you really want to be with. At the same time, you should also be genuine infront of him. Show the real you and see if he can accept you.

Bull’s eye—not bull shit

Yeah, this is the modern era and there is no way to be virgin at 17 anymore, you say. However, no matter how liberated you are, you cannot hide the fact that you feel empty and wasted after your boy dumps you just right after a make out with him. Tell me I am a liar. What’s more if you have been playing with fire for more than 6 months then he tells you he does not like you anymore, you regret those pieces of you which you wasted with him right?

For sure you want to feel that you are treated special by the one you love. Therefore, if you want this to happen, you should show him that you really deserve and demand to be valued. How do you do this? Make him respect you by having a self-respect first.

If you know that you are precious and the man you will end up with would be so blessed to have you, then better preserve yourself for that someone. And you would know also how a guy values and respects you based on how he wants to consume you. If he wants to protect and preserve your purity and dignity for the right time, then surely he sincerely loves you. However, if he demands that you give yourself to him, then he is just treating you as a commodity. Now, which do you prefer?

So my point is..

Instead of undressing your body before your boyfriend, better undress your soul for him to see your real worth. The true beauty is not skin and flesh deep, but it lies within you. Finding someone who does not only lust after you, but desires to protect you is much fulfilling. You can only do this then if you show that you are really worthy of such treatment—and that is through undressing attractively.

How to make the CLIMAX longlasting

It brings your ego down when you are not able to satisfy your partner in bed. Reaching your climax first before your partner does is somewhat disappointing since you know you took away your lover’s fun. Though you do not hear any complaint, you could hear in the wind the whispers of sighs. So annoying and even embarrassing.

What then must be done to make the thrill and excitement between you and your lover last? Is treating premature ejaculation the solution? Or being more creative in foreplays? What then if you succeed in satisfying your partner’s sexual fantasies? Is it all that there is in your relationship?

Nowadays, you do not need to be in love or in a relationship with your bed partner just to be carnally satisfied. There are even many who make this demand as a profession. Therefore, what makes you think that just because you are a good lover in bed your partner would stick with you forever and ever?

A love relationship is not just about sex. Marriage is not just about getting the license to make love with someone. If your partnership is centered on your bodily cravings, then I tell you, it would not last. Why stay in the bondage of marriage if you could just get your gratification anywhere, anytime, and with anyone without being tied to a commitment?

Therefore, if your goal is not just to make love longer but to make your love forever, then here are some helpful tips for you:

1. Be interested in your partner as a person. The difference between the person you love and a person you  just make love with is VALUE. You marry a person not just to have a sex partner but because you value him/her and you want that to be sealed. Therefore, make sure that you do not just treat your partner as a sex object but as someone who is special. Be interested in what he/she is up to and know his/her love language.

2. Have other bonding moments. Making out, making love, or making baby is not just the only exciting bonding activity that you can have together as a couple. You should make it a habit to spend time with each other no matter how busy your individual lives are. Having a dinner date at least once a week and  taking a walk at the park or seashore once in a while are just some of the options. This will sweeten your relationship more and give you time to listen to or focus on each other.

3. Treat your partner as a king/queen. You want be treated as if you were the most important person in the world right? You want your partner to make you feel special, don’t you? Well, if these are your dreams, then you should realize that they are your spouse’s too. Therefore, make an effort to serve him/her in every little way. Cook for him/her, give a relaxing massage after work, or simply tuck him/her in bed. Show that you adore him/her more than anybody else on earth.

4. Be an encourager. You are not only there for your partner in times of fun and comfort. You are more than needed when he/she is down or stressed. There are times when your partner would be too discouraged that he/she would be irresponsible or unenthusiastic in life anymore. During these times, you may get impatient, disappointed, or even discouraged too. However, instead of being a nagger or another hopeless, you should be patient enough to continue to be at his/her side. Show that you believe in him/her. Help your partner believe that he/she can do it. More than anybody else, you are the best person who can encourage your spouse.

The climax of a healthy relationship is not in bed but in how you value each other. Instead of concentrating on how to create a satisfying lovemaking, you should focus more on how to make your love longlasting.