Naked or covered?

Every woman desires to become the sexiest in the eyes of men, especially to the one she wants to get

attracted to her. With lots of gorgeous ladies who can turn heads on, being the most desirable is not an easy thing. You need to compete with many women who also have the goal of becoming the fairest of all.

With this goal in mind, it is no wonder that most women nowadays are becoming more vain just to be considered a stunner. Wearing shimmering make-ups, changing hairstyles every now and then, and flaunting luxurious gems and branded apparels are some of the criteria considered in this competition.

However, the main course in this pageant is the fashion of each aspiring beauty queen. Clothes are sure ways of getting admirers. If you wear your stuff well, if you are able to carry yourself in whatever outfits you are in, you can already attract many.

Almost stripped naked

Many believe that the more skin you reveal, the sexier you will appear. Therefore, clothes nowadays are becoming smaller, shorter, and fitter. Women who like to attract men wear skimpy shorts and skirts, sheer dresses, and tops that emphasize the cleavage.

Yes, such attires will really turn lots of men’s eyes to you. When you are almost naked before them, these poor males become helpless because it is their weakness. Men are visual and sexual beings. Just the exposure of some usually hidden parts of a woman’s body can already drive their imagination wild. In just a minute, hot scenes with that woman have already played in their minds.

If your goal is to turn a man sexually on, yes, wearing too short shorts and sheer tops with no tank beneath can make you achieve it.

Covered and protected

However, if what you really aim for is the admiration, respect, and true love of the man you want, being almost naked in front of him will not do the job.

One thing that you should learn about how men truly love is that they are protective of their woman. Therefore, if your guy does not like you showing lots of skin, you are blessed because it means he wants you to be safe from the cravings of other men. They know what runs inside the head of the other guys who encounter hot and sexy women so they do not want the loved of their life to be the subject of their lust.

If a man likes you because you are sexy and daring, it means that he is only after you for one thing—and it is no other than sex. His passion for you is purely carnal and you cannot expect him to stand by you the moment he gets bored of your body. For this reason, you should know the real motives of the man you allow to enter into your life.

A beauty queen

You should understand that a beauty queen is different from a cheap whore on the street. A queen is treated with respect, gentleness, and adoration, but the latter is just seen as a commodity and a pleasure-giver.

Therefore, if you want to be admired and loved as a masterpiece of beauty, here are what you need to do:

·         Be simple and modest- as it is said, “simplicity is beauty”. You do not have to adorn yourself with lots of accessories and branded garments. As long as you are clean and fresh-looking, you are already lovable. Also, avoid wearing too small and fit clothes that reveal much of your skin. You can still be fashionable and trendy even without being too daring and loud.

·         Focus on the beauty from within- what a man wants in a partner is not only a dozing sex appeal. A kind, gentle, and mature woman is more precious to him. She is the person perfect to live forever and build his home with. Therefore, you should focus  on developing your character more. Strive to be pure and righteous so that you will possess a beauty that is timeless and never fleeting.

The lust of the flesh is temporal and usually once a man gets what he wants from a woman, the adoration that he had for her at the beginning is lessened or replaced by disgust. Therefore, your goal should not only to be attractive and desirable. You must aim to be a woman of value by having a noble character—and it starts by having self-respect.