The art of undressing attractively

After a dinner date with your boyfriend, where do you go? Do you go home immediately—or do you go home at all? Where is your next and final destination? Is it his pad or your place? Then, where do you end up with him? In bed? In the shower? There you go—the most awaited part of your date’s program.

Hmmm... wait—Before, you cuddle up with him under the sheet or you dance in the rain inside his bathroom, what is that thing which you need to do first? Well, I would not blame you if you do not notice that part of the play at all, but without your knowing, it gives your night a kind of interlude. Usually, you do this hurriedly (especially if you are that heated up already), but sometimes you even do it with a pirouette for a poise. What is this? Well, it is no other than undressing.

Yeah, undressing. This is the least part that we notice whenever we do something ‘supernatural’ with our partner. However, unconsciously, doing this is a performance—an art.

The wild dance of fire

Foreplay is done gracefully, if you ever notice. It follows the smooth rhythm of lovers’ passion and this is how the fire is turned on—or made wilder. Moreover, this scene begins with undressing and so this means that even just the taking off of clothes in this instance is a graceful dance too.

Do you want to know how to undress attractively so that you could make your boyfriend go wild right from the beginning? Well, it is interesting that you are interested, but if you want to learn the tricks of undressing before the bed for your boyfriend—i repeat—your BOYFRIEND, then I will give you the undressing tips that are suitable for your level.

Go naked before him—very naked

It is not being naive, but it is just trying to help you be the best girlfriend and future wife that you can be. As a

young and single lady, instead of focusing on how to be good in bed already, you should first know how a guy should value you. Does he really love you for who you are or does he just like to linger with you because he can make you go naked before him anytime he wants it?

Undressing before a guy does not make him love you, but undressing your character before him makes you see if he could really love you for who you are. Moreover, he should also undress his life to you. What do I mean here? This is all about getting to know the real person before entrusting yourself to someone completely.

To know your boyfriend down to his bones, you do not need to go all the way with him. Why not try to learn about his interests? Get to know if he is responsible, gentleman, hardworking, etc. See also how he treats his friends and family, especially the women in his life. In ways like these, you will know if he is the one you really want to be with. At the same time, you should also be genuine infront of him. Show the real you and see if he can accept you.

Bull’s eye—not bull shit

Yeah, this is the modern era and there is no way to be virgin at 17 anymore, you say. However, no matter how liberated you are, you cannot hide the fact that you feel empty and wasted after your boy dumps you just right after a make out with him. Tell me I am a liar. What’s more if you have been playing with fire for more than 6 months then he tells you he does not like you anymore, you regret those pieces of you which you wasted with him right?

For sure you want to feel that you are treated special by the one you love. Therefore, if you want this to happen, you should show him that you really deserve and demand to be valued. How do you do this? Make him respect you by having a self-respect first.

If you know that you are precious and the man you will end up with would be so blessed to have you, then better preserve yourself for that someone. And you would know also how a guy values and respects you based on how he wants to consume you. If he wants to protect and preserve your purity and dignity for the right time, then surely he sincerely loves you. However, if he demands that you give yourself to him, then he is just treating you as a commodity. Now, which do you prefer?

So my point is..

Instead of undressing your body before your boyfriend, better undress your soul for him to see your real worth. The true beauty is not skin and flesh deep, but it lies within you. Finding someone who does not only lust after you, but desires to protect you is much fulfilling. You can only do this then if you show that you are really worthy of such treatment—and that is through undressing attractively.