How to make the CLIMAX longlasting

It brings your ego down when you are not able to satisfy your partner in bed. Reaching your climax first before your partner does is somewhat disappointing since you know you took away your lover’s fun. Though you do not hear any complaint, you could hear in the wind the whispers of sighs. So annoying and even embarrassing.

What then must be done to make the thrill and excitement between you and your lover last? Is treating premature ejaculation the solution? Or being more creative in foreplays? What then if you succeed in satisfying your partner’s sexual fantasies? Is it all that there is in your relationship?

Nowadays, you do not need to be in love or in a relationship with your bed partner just to be carnally satisfied. There are even many who make this demand as a profession. Therefore, what makes you think that just because you are a good lover in bed your partner would stick with you forever and ever?

A love relationship is not just about sex. Marriage is not just about getting the license to make love with someone. If your partnership is centered on your bodily cravings, then I tell you, it would not last. Why stay in the bondage of marriage if you could just get your gratification anywhere, anytime, and with anyone without being tied to a commitment?

Therefore, if your goal is not just to make love longer but to make your love forever, then here are some helpful tips for you:

1. Be interested in your partner as a person. The difference between the person you love and a person you  just make love with is VALUE. You marry a person not just to have a sex partner but because you value him/her and you want that to be sealed. Therefore, make sure that you do not just treat your partner as a sex object but as someone who is special. Be interested in what he/she is up to and know his/her love language.

2. Have other bonding moments. Making out, making love, or making baby is not just the only exciting bonding activity that you can have together as a couple. You should make it a habit to spend time with each other no matter how busy your individual lives are. Having a dinner date at least once a week and  taking a walk at the park or seashore once in a while are just some of the options. This will sweeten your relationship more and give you time to listen to or focus on each other.

3. Treat your partner as a king/queen. You want be treated as if you were the most important person in the world right? You want your partner to make you feel special, don’t you? Well, if these are your dreams, then you should realize that they are your spouse’s too. Therefore, make an effort to serve him/her in every little way. Cook for him/her, give a relaxing massage after work, or simply tuck him/her in bed. Show that you adore him/her more than anybody else on earth.

4. Be an encourager. You are not only there for your partner in times of fun and comfort. You are more than needed when he/she is down or stressed. There are times when your partner would be too discouraged that he/she would be irresponsible or unenthusiastic in life anymore. During these times, you may get impatient, disappointed, or even discouraged too. However, instead of being a nagger or another hopeless, you should be patient enough to continue to be at his/her side. Show that you believe in him/her. Help your partner believe that he/she can do it. More than anybody else, you are the best person who can encourage your spouse.

The climax of a healthy relationship is not in bed but in how you value each other. Instead of concentrating on how to create a satisfying lovemaking, you should focus more on how to make your love longlasting.